Author: Jennifer Benjamin

  • What’s in Your Slice of Pie? Exploring Person-of-the-Therapist Work

    As systemic family therapists, we understand the importance of fostering meaningful connections with the families we serve. But to truly be effective, we must first look inward and reflect on the unique “slice of pie” that we bring into the therapy room. This analogy—simple yet profound—invites us to examine the ingredients that shape our therapeutic presence.

    Our slice of pie represents the sum of our experiences, biases, beliefs, and emotional triggers. These elements influence how we interpret and respond to the dynamics we observe in families. While some ingredients, such as empathy, self-awareness, and openness, enhance our work, others—like unresolved personal biases or emotional blind spots—can create barriers to effective therapy.

    This is where Person-of-the-Therapist (POTT) work becomes essential. POTT encourages therapists to engage in deep self-reflection, identify their “ingredients,” and take intentional steps toward growth. By acknowledging how our own histories and emotions intersect with our professional roles, we position ourselves to build authentic relationships with families and create space for transformative change.

    So, how can you assess what’s in your slice of pie? Here are a few steps to get started:

    1. Engage in Reflective Practices: Journaling, supervision, or peer consultation can help you uncover patterns and areas for growth.
    2. Seek Feedback: Honest input from colleagues and supervisors can provide valuable insights into how your personal attributes impact your work.
    3. Commit to Continuous Learning: Attend trainings or engage in activities that challenge your assumptions and expand your perspectives.
    4. Practice Mindfulness: Awareness of your own emotional triggers allows you to stay grounded and fully present during sessions.

    When we take the time to examine and refine our slice of pie, we not only enhance our skills but also deepen our connection to the families we work with. What’s in your slice? Are you ready to do the work to ensure your ingredients support healing and growth?

    💬 Join the conversation! What practices help you cultivate self-awareness as a therapist?

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  • Spotlight on Our ESFT-FBMHS Alumna: A Conversation with Tamara Allen

    We’re thrilled to share a special recording featuring Tamara Allen, an alumna of the ESFT-FBMHS program and a Booster from the Allentown Cohort! In this insightful video, Tamara reflects on her journey, the impact of the program on her clinical practice, and her dedication to creating meaningful change for families. Her passion for systemic family therapy and her commitment to fostering resilience shine through in every moment.

    Watch the video to hear Tamara’s inspiring story and gain valuable insights from her experience!

  • We are excited to announce the publication of our latest peer-reviewed article in the Children and Youth Services Review: “Modified Family Assessment Form (MFAF) and Pennsylvania Families: Establishing Construct Validity and Reliability.”

    This collaborative research, authored by Steve Simms, Jennifer Benjamin, Todd Franke, and Pinky Patel, focuses on validating the MFAF within Pennsylvania families, aiming to enhance the tools available for family assessment in therapeutic settings.

    The study’s findings contribute to the field of systemic family therapy by providing a reliable instrument for practitioners working with diverse family structures.

    We invite fellow professionals and researchers to read the full article here:

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  • What is “Family Life” in the client’s social ecology:

    1. Parenting Styles and Discipline

    • Family Connection: The way parents enforce rules, boundaries, and discipline within the home.
    • Social Ecology Impact: Cultural norms and societal expectations often shape parenting approaches, such as collectivist cultures emphasizing obedience and respect or individualist cultures prioritizing independence.

    2. Conflict Resolution

    • Family Connection: How family members handle disagreements, whether through open dialogue, avoidance, or escalated arguments.
    • Social Ecology Impact: Broader societal influences, such as workplace stress or community norms about emotional expression, can affect how conflict is addressed within families.

    3. Celebrations and Traditions

    • Family Connection: Birthdays, holidays, or rituals unique to the family.
    • Social Ecology Impact: Traditions may be influenced by cultural heritage, religious practices, and the family’s interaction with their local community.

    4. Family Roles and Responsibilities

    • Family Connection: Expectations for caregiving, household chores, or decision-making responsibilities.
    • Social Ecology Impact: Economic conditions, gender roles, and societal shifts (e.g., dual-income households) shape these roles within the family.

    5. Emotional Support Systems

    • Family Connection: Families offering encouragement during stress or celebrating achievements.
    • Social Ecology Impact: Access to community resources, social networks, or extended family involvement can enhance or limit a family’s ability to provide emotional support.

    6. Communication Patterns

    • Family Connection: The frequency and style of communication between family members (e.g., open, hierarchical, or minimal).
    • Social Ecology Impact: Broader influences, like technology use, workplace demands, or societal norms around expressing feelings, can shape how families communicate.

    7. Routines and Daily Practices

    • Family Connection: Shared meals, bedtime routines, or weekend activities.
    • Social Ecology Impact: Work schedules, school systems, and neighborhood safety often determine the feasibility of maintaining routines.

    8. Adaptation to Stress and Change

    • Family Connection: How families cope with financial difficulties, relocation, or loss.
    • Social Ecology Impact: Access to support systems (like religious organizations, community groups, or healthcare services) significantly influences a family’s resilience.

    9. Education and Learning Support

    • Family Connection: Parents assisting children with homework or prioritizing education.
    • Social Ecology Impact: The quality of schools, availability of resources, and societal attitudes toward education play a role in shaping these family interactions.

    10. Health Practices

    • Family Connection: Meal choices, exercise habits, or approaches to healthcare.
    • Social Ecology Impact: Broader health trends, access to healthcare facilities, and community attitudes toward wellness often intersect with family practices.

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  • 2025 Marion Lindblad-Goldberg Award Opens for Nominations on 1/27/25

    Systemic family therapy stands at the intersection of healing, connection, and transformation. The MLG Awards not only celebrate the incredible achievements of today’s leaders in the field but also pay homage to the foundational work of systemic family therapy’s pioneers, such as Salvador Minuchin and Dr. Marion Lindblad-Goldberg. Minuchin’s groundbreaking contributions established structural family therapy as a cornerstone for understanding and addressing relational dynamics, while Dr. Lindblad-Goldberg advanced this legacy by integrating ecological and trauma-informed approaches. This award recognizes the profound impact systemic family therapy has on families, communities, and professionals. By honoring those who exemplify these values, the MLG Awards inspire ongoing innovation and excellence in a field dedicated to addressing complex challenges and fostering meaningful change. It’s more than an award; it’s a continuation of a legacy that transforms lives, one relationship at a time. Join us in celebrating the extraordinary contributions of systemic family therapy practitioners who, like Minuchin and Lindblad-Goldberg, are committed to making the world a brighter, more connected place.

  • A Year of Growth, Connection, and Gratitude

    As we close out the calendar year, the Philadelphia Child and Family Therapy Training Center (PCFTTC) reflects on 2024 with deep gratitude for our incredible community of systemic family therapists, faculty, alumni, and partners.

    This year, we’ve witnessed remarkable milestones:

    • Expanding our Ecosystemic Structural Family Therapy (ESFT) reach through international training opportunities, including Georgia and Canada.
    • Representing PCFTTC at the AAMFT Conference at Disney World, connecting with colleagues and embracing innovation in family therapy.
    • Welcoming new graduates, celebrating their achievements, and watching them take their next steps in the field.
    • Launching our Certification Programs.
    • New publications advancing the practice of ESFT
    • 700 blog subscribers!

    Through it all, we’ve seen our community grow stronger, embracing systemic approaches that honor the resilience of families and the dedication of those who serve them.

    As we step into 2025, we are excited to continue offering cutting-edge training, supervision, and resources to empower therapists. Together, let’s build on this year’s momentum and keep advancing the transformative work each of you do with professionals and the families they serve.

    From all of us at PCFTTC, we wish you a joyous close to this year and a new year filled with hope, health, and connection. Thank you for being part of our journey!

    Warm regards,


    The PCFTTC Team

  • Supporting Families Through Challenges

    Every family faces challenges, but some struggles—left unaddressed—can negatively affect the entire system. As systemic family therapists, we’re uniquely positioned to help families navigate these challenges, uncover the root causes, and rebuild stronger connections.

    Uncovering hidden patterns within the family dynamic often reveals the source of relational distress. By addressing these issues, therapists can guide families toward open communication and mutual understanding. This process strengthens the family unit and lays the groundwork for lasting change.

    Practical steps to support families:

    • Facilitate Enactments: Allow families to practice new ways of interacting in-session.
    • Promote Accountability: Encourage each member to take responsibility for their role in the system.
    • Celebrate Progress: Acknowledge and build on small successes.

    When families learn to function as a cohesive unit, they’re better equipped to weather life’s storms together. Systemic therapy provides the tools to make this possible.

  • Recognizing and Addressing Negative Family Dynamics

    Systemic family therapists understand that no family exists in a vacuum. When negative patterns emerge within a family system, the ripple effects can be profound, influencing emotional health, communication, and relationships.

    Unresolved conflicts, miscommunication, or persistent tension can create cycles of dysfunction. These patterns can shape how family members relate to each other and the world around them. As therapists, it’s our role to help families identify these dynamics and work towards healthier interactions.

    Key strategies to address negative dynamics include:

    • Mapping Patterns: Use tools like genograms or ecomaps to visually explore relational issues.
    • Reframing Issues: Shift perspectives to help families see challenges as opportunities for growth.
    • Facilitating Open Dialogue: Encourage honest, respectful communication during sessions.

    By addressing the root causes of conflict, we help families move beyond survival mode to thrive as a connected, supportive unit. It’s this transformation that lies at the heart of systemic family therapy.

  • The Courage to Seek Feedback

    As systemic family therapists, we’re committed to growth—both our clients’ and our own. But let’s be honest: asking for client feedback can be daunting. It’s not just about inviting critique; it’s about facing vulnerabilities and challenging ourselves to improve.

    Yet, client feedback is one of the most powerful tools in our professional arsenal. It provides invaluable insights into how clients perceive our interventions and approach. These perspectives can shine a light on blind spots we might otherwise miss and help us fine-tune our methods to be more effective.

    Feedback can also enhance the therapeutic relationship. When clients see us actively seeking their input, they’re reminded that therapy is a collaborative process. This mutual respect fosters trust and can even deepen engagement.

    To integrate client feedback into your practice:

    1. Create a Safe Space: Frame feedback as a tool for collaboration and improvement.
    2. Be Specific: Ask targeted questions about what is working and what isn’t.
    3. Act on It: Demonstrate that their input matters by implementing changes where appropriate.

    Growth thrives on reflection and adaptation. Embracing client feedback not only strengthens your practice but also reinforces your commitment to serving families with excellence.